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a group of friends in Seattle

Make Friends Who Actually Show Up

Welcome to the Anti-Flake Friendship Club

Apply today!

The Anti-Flake Friendship Club, Explained

Mixingle Circles is a 6-week program where we match you with a small group of people who meet weekly to build real friendships.

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Same crew. Built-in plans. Everyone shows up.

Here's How It Works

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WE MATCH YOU

Fill out a short application where you get to tell us about yourself. Then we match you with compatible people.

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YOU MEET WEEKLY

Same people. Same commitment. Every week for 6 weeks. Built-in plans, zero coordination chaos.​

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FRIENDSHIPS HAPPEN

By Week 3, you have inside jokes. By Week 6, you have a crew. After the program? Friends who follow through.

If This Sounds Familiar...

You meet someone cool. You exchange numbers. "We should totally hang out!" And then... nothing. The text sits there. Life gets busy. You both move on. Or maybe you DO make plans, and they cancel. Twice. Eventually you stop trying.

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It's not you. It's the system.

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Making friends as an adult is weirdly hard. Not because you're bad at it. But because there's no structure anymore. No dorms. No forced proximity. No one making you show up.

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You've tried:

  • Bumble BFF (ghosted after three messages)

  • Meetups (showed up once, never saw those people again)

  • Being the "organizer" (exhausting, thankless, no one follows through)

 

Here's what you actually need:

People who commit. Plans that happen. A system that makes flaking weird.

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Real People,
Real Friendships

They always say you find someone special when you stop looking for them. I was happy to find someone I wasn't looking for, but most certainly needed in my life.

Caitlin, Circle Member '25

Who's in a Circle?

See yourself anywhere here? Most people relate to more than one. When you apply, you'll tell us where you're at and we'll use that, along with everything else we learn about you, to build the right circle for you.
Ready to Find Your Circle?

What's Included 
(And Why People Love It)

$250 for 6 weeks - that's about $42 per week.

 

For less than a typical dinner out, you get a curated group of people who actually show up, a plan for every week, and a system designed to turn strangers into real friends.

 

Here's what's included:

  • Personalized matching: We carefully review every application and hand-pick a small group based on life stage, values, interests, and availability. 

  • 6 weeks of planned activities: We suggest and coordinate a new activity each week so you never have to figure out what to do or where to go. Just show up.

  • Profile cards before Week 1: Know who you're meeting before you walk in the door. First names, neighborhoods, interests, and fun facts. No awkward "wait, what's your name again?" moments.

  • A Circle Toolkit: Conversation prompts, weekly themes, and connection guides designed to help you go deeper than small talk from the very first meetup.

  • Ongoing support from Mixingle:  Weekly check-ins, a direct line if anything comes up, and facilitation every step of the way. You're never on your own.

  • A foundation for friendships that last: Most Circles keep meeting long after the 6 weeks end. We give you the structure to start. What you build from there is yours.

Your Crew Is Waiting

This isn't another app. It's a group of real people who all agreed to show up every week, for 6 weeks.


When everyone commits, something different happens: plans actually happen, conversations go deeper, and friendships stick.

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Same people. Same time. Real connection.

PROGRAM LENGTH

6 weeks of guided connection

GROUP SIZE

3-6 carefully matched people

LOCATION

Seattle area

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