About Mixingle
Connection isn’t just nice to have. It’s essential. Yet building meaningful relationships has never felt harder. Busy schedules, endless scrolling, and the awkwardness of putting yourself out there leave too many of us feeling disconnected.
Mixingle is here to change that. We make finding your people easier, more natural, and genuinely fun. Whether you’re looking for deep friendships, a supportive community, or even romantic connections, we help you build relationships that actually last.
No forced small talk. No endless swiping. Just real connections, built with intention.
Meet the Founder
Hi, I'm Nicole. I still remember the moment I realized I felt alone in a room full of people. It was at a work happy hour in 2018, my fifth year in Seattle. I was surrounded by colleagues, making small talk about weekend plans and the weather, when it hit me: I didn't have anyone I could call to grab dinner on a random Tuesday or share actual good news with when something exciting happened.
That night, I went home and did what any millennial does when facing a crisis: I googled "how to make friends as an adult." The results were depressing. Dating apps for friends that felt shallow. Meetup groups that were either too large or too focused on activities rather than actual connection. Facebook groups full of people asking the same question: "How do I find my people?"
I realized I wasn't alone in feeling alone. Seattle, despite being full of transplants and people seeking community, had a friendship problem. We were all individually trying to solve the same puzzle.
That's when I decided to stop waiting for someone else to create the solution and start building it myself. I got certified as a connection coach, spent months researching what actually creates lasting friendships, and started experimenting with different formats for bringing people together.
The breakthrough came when I realized that most approaches to adult friendship were missing three crucial elements: consistency, intentionality, and emotional safety.
People need to see each other regularly, have deeper conversations than surface-level chitchat, and feel like they can be authentic without judgment.
Mixingle was born from this realization. It's not just another way to meet people; it's a completely different approach to building the relationships that make life richer.
Why This Matters Now
We're living through a loneliness epidemic. Studies show that chronic loneliness affects our health as much as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Yet despite being more "connected" than ever through technology, rates of social isolation are skyrocketing.
In Seattle specifically, the combination of transplant culture, tech industry work patterns, and Pacific Northwest reserve creates a perfect storm for adult friendship challenges. People want to connect but don't know how to move from acquaintance to actual friendship.
Add in the post-pandemic shift in how we socialize, and traditional methods of meeting people (work happy hours, hobby groups, casual meetups) often fall short of creating the deeper connections people are actually craving.
That's why Mixingle exists. We're not just another social platform; we're a response to a fundamental human need that isn't being met by existing solutions.
Our Core Values
Mixingle isn’t just about meeting people. It’s about transforming the way we build relationships. These four values guide everything we do:
DEPTH OVER BREADTH
We believe in quality over quantity. Rather than helping you meet hundreds of people, we focus on helping you build meaningful relationships with the right people. Every interaction is designed to go beyond surface level.
VULNERABLE COURAGE
Real connection requires real vulnerability. We create spaces where it's safe to share your authentic self, ask for what you need, and be honest about your struggles. Courage isn't about being fearless; it's about being real despite the fear.
FRIENDSHIP AS A SKILL
Most people think friendship should just "happen naturally," but like any relationship, it requires intention and practice. We teach the specific skills that create lasting bonds: active listening, emotional availability, and showing up consistently.
BELONGING BEFORE FITTING IN
There's a difference between fitting in and belonging. Fitting in is about becoming what others want you to be. Belonging is about being accepted for who you are. We're building a community where your authentic self is not just welcome but celebrated.
Your Community Is Waiting
At Mixingle, we believe making meaningful connections shouldn't feel like a struggle. Our Community Circles takes the stress out of meeting new people by providing structure, support, and a group of like-minded individuals who are just as committed to building lasting friendships as you are.
Winter 2026 applications will open soon! Join a circle and find your next best friend.